Ask Mr. Fix it

When we are discussing the subject of "picking up women." I often get asked what to do in order to "pick up women", or just "how to pick up women".

I recently got asked the doubt: "Why do girls flirt with you and when you flirt back they reject it? It's so misleading!!!" I thought it was exciting and important enough to share.

First of all, women have different personalities. What is being described here is a type of personality, not all females in general. The personality type that usually does this kind of actions is a little shaky. They are testing the water, but they don't actually want to jump in.

The best way to handle this personality type is when you see it is not to react, not to take the bait so to speak. Let the girl flirt all she likes, let her take the lead. Let her control how the association goes. If you don't react, she will feel at ease with you and steepen the gradient gradually. If you react (flirt back) she will usually run away.

Problem is, however, people with similar or compatible personalities tend to hang out together. So quite often you can get the impression that the whole world is in one direction, when in fact it may be just a certain percentage of persons who are like that. So if you tend to think ALL women are one way, change your environment. Go somewhere different, meet different people in different situations and perhaps you will discover different personality types and possibly one that is more compatible with you.

Now having said that, let's view it from a different perspective. Women in general enjoy flirting for flirting's sake more than men do. Men will flirt because they are interested in a woman. Women will flirt to see if they get a reaction, to see if they are looking good and are attractive, even when they are not interested in a man. They will flirt with a person they are only keen on being friends with.

One approach to get better control of these situations is to look at all the communication channels that a woman is using to communicate - Like oral, emotional, physical, mental, and sexual communications.

When a lady likes you she probably will communicate that she likes you across all of the communications channels. When she is just playing around she will give you conflicting communications. So when you see a woman flirting with you, but she does not back up the flirting by showing you she likes you over ALL the communication channels - don't take the flirtation seriously.

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