Ask Mr. Fix it

You were a challenge for her. You had a very high significance and she was irresistibly attracted to you. Now she's gone and you are saying: "I want my ex back!"

I am going to make a wild guess here, and yet is it that as time went on, you grew to be less and less of a challenge for her? And could it be that currently, you're zero challenge for her? And that she believes if she wanted to, at any time she could easily get you back again and twisted around her little finger just by saying the word?

Now I'm going to be crude here, but as you know, to develop into a challenge again you must show to your ex girlfriend that her sexuality has no influence over you any longer. Think about what it's like when you're stalking her with not returned telephone calls, voice mails, text messages, and emails. And then think of exactly what it is like when you keep doing it (as quite a few guys do) even after she's told you to stop. You are indicating to the woman that you're a low-value guy without any other alternatives.

Your lady is not going to respect you again until you refuse her lovemaking dominance over you. Fortunately you're doing that now by not specifically communicating with her. The last thing she needs to hear from you now is how much "I want my ex back", so stay away from her.

You should definitely stay 100% rigid with your communication cut-off. Be careful not to be "friends" with her, simply because that rewards her with the continued validation of power over you while providing her a convenient justification to stay split up. (Your ex reasons that she is letting you down easy doing this, assuaging any guilt she may experience.)

However, you should definitely keep her locked in with the help of your things. Most likely quite a few your possessions are at her place, and vice versa. She may even owe you money as well. She might get a mutual friend of yours to ask you if you'd like everything returned.

The best reply to this is definitely "No, not yet. The reason is because her possessing your stuff (and you possessing hers) is still locking the two of you in and guaranteeing future communication. You do NOT want to give her the psychological closure that would be caused by settling your accounts.

For the next 3 weeks, you need to completely accept -- and embrace -- the undeniable fact that you are an independent person now. Take what happened with your ex and learn from it. You've got a golden opportunity to transform your life which will ultimately allow you to get your exgirlfriend back.

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