Ask Mr. Fix it

Reckon you don't have much chance of getting your old girlfriend back without begging or taking the blame for something you didn't even do? If so, you've fallen into the same trap I did after my sweetheart walked out. Don't feel dreadful; most guys react the same way in this trouble. Nine times out of ten, you're doing the exact opposite of what you should be and it's only making your ex happy she left.

Here's what you ought to be doing instead:

Stay calm!

You had a fight, you yelled at each other, she told you she never wants to see your face again and walked out. Once you start to really feel you've lost her, nervousness sets in. You end up contacting her every day, sending one electronic mail after another, and basically turn into a stalker before you realize it.

No girl in her right mind will go back to a guy who's hunting her. Take a few days to collect your thoughts and then try a few times to contact her. If she doesn't respond, move on to the next step, which is...

Speak to her friends! Not what you wished to hear, I bet. Yeah, trying to make an impression on her friends was hard enough when you were dating, but now that she's spent hours showing them what a jerk you are, how are you expected to approach them?

Regrettably, though, when it comes to getting your girlfriend back, these are exactly the people you need to be talking to because they have the most power to sway your ex. If you can clarify your side of the story and at least get a little compassion, the next time she speaks about you, they're at least going to put in a nice word for you.

Stay attractive!

Let's admit, a lot of us-both men and women-have an inclination to let ourselves go when we're feeling depressed. Maybe you wear the same shirt for three days in a row or put off getting a hair cut too long. This is exactly what you aren't supposed to be doing. I know it's hard, but however bad you feel, take care of yourself. Eat right, get sufficient sleep, and don't skimp on personal cleanliness. Not only will you feel better, you're ex girlfriend will see you as someone worthy of being with.

Be open!

Once you get an opportunity to talk to her, you have to know what to say. Part of that means explaining what you were thinking when you had the fight that almost ended the relationship.

This is a tough one, I know. If I had my choice, not a soul would ever know I ever had a problem in my life. Really, though, you'll be better off admitting that you were stressed out from work, family problems, or whatever than attempting to cover anything up.

Getting your ex back doesn't have to be hard if you keep your self respect and deal with the problem head on. Stay calm and be honest about what caused the break up and you'll be well on your way to making peace with your lady.

But if all that fails or you find out in the process that you truly don't want her back, then learn how to meet some new ladies. Read some of the dating experts for men. Try googling terms like " deangelo dating", or "double your dating deangelo", or "doubleyourdating".

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